Klein plays with the idea of narratives being both true and false at the same time, which resonates for me in the way Sam and Dean’s narrative has unfolded. I understand Sam’s anger and hurt, but not the way he’s framing his issues. I understand Dean’s inability to see saving Sam as a bad thing, but not that he can’t understand Sam needs to hear him apologize.
I now think those points are supposed to rankle, both for me and Sam and Dean. The brothers haven’t been able to communicate to each other what they feel and why, because they haven’t yet really listened to each other. Each of them is reacting to his own perception of what the other feels, just as they were at the church in “Sacrifice.” Jeremy Carver said last season was all about perception, and I think that theme has carried forward to season nine.

In “Thinman,” Klein sets up a play within a play to allow Sam and Dean to get enough distance from their own feelings to get a clearer perspective on their issues. The episode begins by establishing the problem. Dean and Sam warily tip toe around each other as they decide to work together on a case. Dean illustrates his disconnect from why when he says to Sam, “I don’t know what you want.”
Sam is clearly frustrated to hear that. He’s tried to tell Dean what he wants. However, in his anger, he’s bundled together a lot of issues concerning Dean. Does he mean them all?
The rest of the episode places the Winchesters as audience to the Ghostfacers’ drama, which touches on all the Winchesters’ issues going back to the pilot. Klein places actual dialogue the brothers have spoken to each other in Ed and Harry’s mouths, a strategy which only works well when the Winchesters are the audience. Unfortunately, when Ed and Harry first confront each other about Ed’s lie, they are alone with us as the only audience

I think this scene is what really annoyed me on first viewing, as I don’t need to be reminded of the plot. Also, I love the Ghostfacers. I was so delighted to hear they were coming back. I love the actors, the characters, their dynamic—I was stoked for “Thinman.” I really didn’t like Ed and Harry being brought back just to stand in for Sam and Dean in an incredibly obvious set up. It felt like a waste of their talent.
When I watched the episode again, I realized that’s the only scene which is solely for the TV audience. The rest of the Ghostfacers’ drama plays out in front of Sam and Dean, and that’s where the episode gets interesting.

Sam and Dean have a lovely moment of connection when Dean reminds Sam of a childhood incident between the two of them. Sam fondly laughs along with Dean, but pulls back when he realizes Dean wants him to pretend all’s well between them. The connection becomes disconnection, perfectly punctuated by Ed’s knock at the door.
When Ed confesses his lie to Sam and Dean, both boys see the similarities to their own drama. Sam’s feelings burst out of him when he tells Ed, “Trust me here, secrets ruin relationships!” Dean hears Sam in a way he hasn’t previously, because this time he has enough distance not be triggered by Sam’s words.

Using Ed as a proxy works for Sam, too, as he zeroes in on what he needs Dean to understand. The lies are what he is having trouble forgiving, not Dean’s desperation to save him. I think the writing has been hinting at this distinction as the writers showed over and over Sam’s own desperation to save Dean when his brother was in danger. We see that scenario again in “Thinman,” as Sam screams when Roger is ready to kill Dean. Sam is no more able to stop being a brother than Dean is.
Sam has some alone time with Harry, during which he sympathises with Harry’s hurt and outrage at the lies Ed told him to lure him away from his relationship. Harry tells Sam he can’t go along with Ed’s wish to pretend nothing happened, and Sam understands that, too. Then the two of them get to the crux of the matter: what is forgivable? Sam tells Harry he has to work that out for himself, and of course, so does Sam.

As Harry says, the situation is complicated. I loved the way Klein illustrates the shades of grey by having the play within a play include elements that are true to the Winchesters’ story and elements that are not, just as Roger and the deputy were doing with their constructed Thinman narrative. The scenario was fake; the murders were real.
Harry and Ed’s narrative has the same mix of resonant and distorted elements compared to Sam and Dean’s story. The most obvious distortion is the difference in stakes. Ed was saving the partnership. Dean was saving Sam’s life. There’s also the point that Dean accepted Sam’s right to choose his relationship in season eight, and Sam made his own decision to return. There are even more discrepancies between the two stories.
Ed and Harry do what they do for a different reason than Dean and Sam do what they do. While the Ghostfacers do want to help people, the motivation that drives most of their actions is the desire to be famous, to attract followers, to get on Dr. Phil. Ed pleads with Harry that they could just keep the Thinman lie going for the fans, because without Ghostfacers, they are just two ordinary joes.
Dean and Sam’s motivations for why they do what they do are very different. Neither is in it for the glory—there’s no glory to be had, only loss and heartache. They do what they do because they believe they make a difference. Sam may see Dean as selfish right now, and certainly his choice to save Sam had selfish aspects, but Dean’s desire to save people is not selfish. His vision of Sam as someone he wants to hold close because Sam helps him to be the person Dean wants to be is not selfish. We all have people we hold close because of what they bring out in us. The situation, as Harry says, is complicated.
Dean’s Mark of Cain comes back into the narrative in “Thinman,” as Dean coldly kills Roger in a way he can later cover up. Dean’s killed a human before, but this time was marked by the same cold calculation FutureDean showed when he used his friends as cannon fodder to distract Lucifer. Dean’s manner is not that different from Soulless Sam’s, either. Sam notices something is off, though he can’t quite put his finger on it. And that’s not surprising, since what is off is the lack of Sam for Dean.
Dean has always been a difficult mix of hunter and caregiver, able to torture but also driven to protect. John raised Dean to be both the perfect hunter and the perfect stand in parent, no quarter given for any failures. The elder Winchester has worried before how far he’ll go to protect his family, and that’s clearly a strong thread in this season’s arc. But he’s also worried how far he’ll go as a hunter, as we saw in “The End.”
Dean didn’t ever want to be FutureDean and he was sure Sam was his key to finding his balance, because he knows his love for Sam is at his core, not his ability to kill. If he loses the sense of family he has with Sam, that leaves Dean very vulnerable to the Mark of Cain, because he is capable of dark deeds.

At the end of “Thinman,” Sam and Dean look equally sad and thoughtful at Harry’s vision of only one chair on the porch, not two. I think both brothers are taking a hard look at what their dispute is really about, because Ed and Harry’s story didn’t just bring the issues to the surface, it also projected a possible end if things don’t change. Sadly, I think just as Sam’s feelings are clarifying, Dean is falling under the sway of the Mark. He now has a better sense of what Sam needs than he did at the start of the episode, but he’s losing a sense of himself.
Sam now has to decide what he can forgive. I think the Ghostfacers have one more parallel to offer the Winchesters. Harry is furious at Ed, but he kills to protect him when Ed puts himself in danger to save Sam. I suspect this is foreshadowing a choice Sam will also have to make in the not too distant future.

I hope Sam’s journey will be helped by Dean giving him the apology for the lies, even if he can’t for saving Sam’s life. My guess is he will, as Dean does notice the similarities between Ed’s situation and his own. There is a difference in his tone when he says to Sam, “Got a bead on those tire tracks if you wanna . . . “ He’s less big brother bossy than usual. Dean had a front row seat to more than one narrative, and unlike the Thinman videos, the Ghostfacers’ story offers hope for a more lasting sense of connection between the brothers.
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Quote: After he refused to listen to Sam and taunted him about it again and again and again.After the horrible text.It was not like Dean accepted because he understood Sam's pain or even considered Sam's initial explanation.Quote: I don't think anyone has said that. I don't understand what the connection between Sam may see Dean as selfish right now and but Dean’s desire to save people is not selfish.Sam has not insinuated that.Quote: It is if having someone means you have lie to them so that they Dance the dance you want.We may have people like that but they should not be trapped so that we can become something.Those people have their own wishes and preferences. Quote: Which is kind of silly when Dean has not even apologized.Quote: Does this mean Sam will be responsible if and when Dean goes off the rails?
Quote: After he refused to listen to Sam and taunted him about it again and again and again.After the horrible text.It was not like Dean accepted because he understood Sam's pain or even considered Sam's initial explanation.Quote: I don't think anyone has said that. I don't understand what the connection between Sam may see Dean as selfish right now and but Dean’s desire to save people is not selfish.Sam has not insinuated that.Quote: It is if having someone means you have lie to them so that they Dance the dance you want.We may have people like that but they should not be trapped so that we can become something.Those people have their own wishes and preferences. Quote: Which is kind of silly when Dean has not even apologized.Quote: Does this mean Sam will be responsible if and when Dean goes off the rails?
anonymousN,
I firmly believe that Dean will apologize soon if the MoC doesn't drive him over the edge. He is very much aware that he crossed lines. At the same time he is glad Sam is alive.
I also believe Sam will not be held responsible for the MoC's influence, he will likely be the one to pull Dean back from the cliff. I can't speak for the fans who insist in seeing no good in either Sam or Dean. They will ALWAYS find ways to justify their hate. I will always try and find ways to justify my love for them.
Many disagree with me but I think Dean feels deeply conflicted about all of this. He is not verbalizing this. But to be fair, an honest non-angry discussion hasn't happened between them yet about this. I think the writers are doing this deliberately to prolong conflict between the brothers and fans.
No, AnonymousN, I think it means Sam will care, just as Dean cared when Bobby told him regardless of his feelings, Sam needed him more than he ever had. Carver seems to be revisiting many of the situations of seasons past, and though he is examining where the line is for saving a brother, I think he'll leave intact the central tenet that the brothers make each other stronger and their love is their weapon against evil.
First thing to get out of the way. Love the look of the comments. It is easier to see and even I saw the unwanted spamming that the comments had got.
Three cheers and good work Alice!
And Gerry, like other reviews I also loved yours. Like yours and with the others you grasp again a new point of view and things to focus in each episodes. That is what I love to read. Thinman also like other episodes really have brought flashbacks of old seasons (that I actually watch now at the same time) Same trouble, same causes, but still different. New things begin to unfold what we didn't knew then.
Usually something has pushed the brothers to get trouble. It has been always something and what you said here. It is actually a good thing if something finally pushes them together not a part like the GF did in this episode. But like you said. It was way much more in everything. Thinman like many episodes on this season and maybe in the past also makes us look deep down under the surface. And what ever characters does it, the GF, Castiel, Crowley and yes, even Snooki has their part to play. Things need to change and also be the same. The brothers will always stay.
I will just stay and enjoy the ride what ever it may be. Keep up the good work with reviews!
Gerry, thank you for this well thoughtout and written review. As I said on Alice's review I did not like this episode at first watch. But after reading your review I have gone back and watched again. What you said has made a hugh difference in what I got out of the episode the second time around. I believe you have hit on what Sam sees as the problem eventhough, he listed what ever he thought would hurt Dean the most. I believe he even mentioned on the bridge when Dean left that Dean had lied to him again. That Dean didn't trust that Sam could handle the situation. Yes, Dean needs to apologize for the lying but to ask him to change his core being in protecting Sam is not going to happen. As you said Quote: I also agree with Quote: I think with Sam disowning Dean as a brother, Sam has given up his good influence on his brother. You know the part where they keep each other human. But that being said I am more then ready for a Dark Dean. I feel that Sam is going to have the opportunity to understand where Dean is coming from in pulling his brother back from the edge.
Thanks again for your review. I really enjoy reading and seeing the episode from someone elses perspective.
The problem for me is Dean says this to Sam in regard to the one area Sam has been crystal clear about, that Sam wants to continue as Dean's hunting partner. Dean is all "I didn't think you wanted to hunt with me" when that is what Sam suggested and agreed to. I don't disagree that Sam is still sorting things out in his head, but Dean isn't listening to what Sam has said that is clear. IMHO, he being passive/aggress ive by ignoring Sam's stated desire to hunt with him.
Oh, the comments look GREAT ALICE!
Gerry, I like this review very much. I often find myself not agreeing much with your take on things, but for the most part I think that this view of the episode is spot on. I liked the episode MUCH better on second viewing and even the ham-fisted conversations between Harry and Ed felt smoother and more relevant the second time around. I have a few things that I'd like to address that I don't exactly disagree with, but perhaps see a little differently.
"Quote: I don't agree that Dean's pinning of all of his self worth and his moral center on Sam as being unselfish at all. It's incredibly selfish, if unconsciously so. He's making Sam responsible for his personhood, his reason for living and is doing so because he can't find it within to muster up any worthiness in himself. This goes way beyond those people we hold dear because they bring out the best in us. As Dean himself said "there aint no me if there aint no you." This type of thing, this bolstering of ones ego should come from within Dean, not be pinned on to Sam. Because Dean is looking outside of himself for his reason to live and work and his sense of self worth, he will always be disappointed in what he deems unsatisfactory evidence of that self worth, because Sam can't provide what needs to come from inside. Even Sam, Dean's greatest ally and the one who loves him best can't provide those things for Dean adequately because Sam can't know ultimately what Dean needs deep down inside of himself; Sam can't battle Dean's demons, Dean must figure out how to do that on his own. Dean should be finding his self worth from within, not trying to get it from Sam. I think that both brothers need each other to a certain extent, but in this way Dean is putting a fundamental need onto Sam that he can't possibly fulfill for Dean, so Dean continually feels let down, which in turn feeds his awful sense of worthlessness and thus is control over Sam and his unwillingness to let Sam make decisions for himself, which has lead us directly to the current situation.
And then there's this:
Quote: It's not that I disagree exactly, it's more that I fear that this will come to fruition in a not so good way for Sam. It's already started actually. I fear that Sam will be made to bear the blame of Dean's eventual fall to the MoC. It may not even be something that the Show endorses or intends (although Sam has been hung out to dry by the PTB many, many times before) but fans are already setting up Sam to blame for Dean's eventual fall. Dean seems to be having a hard time taking responsibility for what he's done wrong, and I would like to see him own up, now for his role in the possession and later if/when he goes down that dark road due to the MoC. I don't suppose I can stop the fans from metaphorically lynching Sam for something that isn't his fault, but it would be nice to have Dean acknowledge that any issues arising from the MoC where based on his own decisions; decisions he made BEFORE he and Sam had the conversation that started this whole mess at the end of Sharp Teeth. I am not saying that you are endorsing such a thing.. it's just that what you wrote sparked the fear in me that Sam will be made a scapegoat for Dean's actions and that Dean will not own up to his own weaknesses and errors. Dean is a great guy.. heroic, funny, snarky and smart. But he CAN be wrong and often is; and he is certainly wrong at the moment even thought he refuses to admit it. I'd like to see him acknowledge his wrongs from time to time the way Sam has repeatedly for his own misdeed since season 4. It makes him more of a man, not less IMO, to be willing to admit to his errors. I don't see Dean doing this right now. Maybe he will be able to do it later after the crisis of the MoC passes and the dust settles.
just a note...sam too has issues of unworthiness as well. he once told dean, he was the least of them. he asks what the upside is to his being alive. he responds...so.. .when dean tells him finishing the trials will kill him. sam too has to deal with this issue as well.
Winchesters...: p
I do hope Sam is important in pulling Dean back from the darkness, but more as support in helping Dean fight his demons, in helping him believe in his own value. Dean needs to see he is so much more than a killer or a loved one's savior at all costs. Things happen and when they do, he is not a failure if things go sideways. Perhaps the MoC will test Dean in ways he needs to be tested so that he will be able to see that he can endure and come out on top thus giving himself a better, more realistic view of his worth. Maybe he'll be able to undo what he learned about himself in Hell, under Alistair's training - that he will no longer turn evil under dire circumstances? Maybe Dean bearing the MoC will be like Frodo carrying the Ring and Sam will have to be like Samwise - helping Dean complete his task and stay in touch with his humanity?
It'll be very interesting to see where the rest of Season 9 takes us!
TQuote: To me, what Dean is doing is tiptoing around Sam, because he doesn't want to presume Sam wants to spend time with him. This isn't chasing Gadreel down, it's a plain ol' monster hunt. Last episode, Sam walked away from a potential conversation with Dean. I think the scene showed both guys not knowing how to make the next move. Sam's angry, but he still wants to be with Dean, or he wouldn't be there. Dean knows he owes Sam an apology, but he's not going to apologize for saving Sam, which he thinks Sam wants to hear.
If the two of them took turns doing some active listening with each other, I think they would find a way forward that meets both their needs - Sam could let Dean know he understands losing a brother is horrible and for Dean, because of his upbringing, more like losing a child. He could clarify whether he's hunting with Dean because he wants to or whether he has one foot out the door like he did in season 8. Dean could let Sam know he understands his decision to lie to Sam rather than give him the choice to expel Gadreel was wrong and didn't respect Sam's autonomy, and big brother or no he does trust and respect Sam's decisions. And parental overtones and all, he has to accept humans die, even Sam. It's a part of being human.
I think this conversation will eventually come, probably not articulated this much ;) , but neither guy is ready to have it in the opening scene. I think they're far closer by the end of the episode.
Quote: I agree that Dean has low self-esteem, and that only he can find his way forward with that. But I don't think his view of Sam as someone who helps ground him and brings out the part of him he most wants to be is unhealthy. I think we are social creatures and our relationships form part of our identity. Dean's not alone in that. I think it's Freud who suggested when we lose a loved one, we lose the part of ourselves we shared with that person. We grieve for what we've lost in ourselves as much as losing the physical person. Another way to say it is, "No man is an island."
To me, Sam and Dean both see the other as someone who has seen the worst in him and believed in the best in him. It's that belief that Dean needed in "The End" and Sam needed in "Swan Song." I don't think it's toxic; I think it's very human to need relationships.
That said, I agree both Sam and Dean have issues they need to address themselves. Dean does need to believe he can't save everyone, and that includes Sam, and he doesn't carry the weight of every failure in this difficult life they need. Sam needs to believe he is a loveable worthy person just as he is, and he has no need to atone for past mistakes.
Is it possible, I am not really sure of this, that this may have been the morning after Sam walked off when Dean tried to say something to Sam? Dean already thinks Sam doesn't want to be his brother. Could Dean might have been unsure of how Sam would feel the next day? Maybe Dean was being passive/aggress ive, I don't know, but he seems to want to have Sam with him usually.
Gerry, great review whether it be late or not. I love the ideas that you brought forth and even though I have rewatched this episode many times now I see things just a little better maybe clearer now. Thank you.
I don't predict Sam making a kill. I predict more of a Stull scenario with Sam showing his love gmail Dean despite everything. The lying of one brother broke the relationship in season 4 too after all.
The revisited major themes from earlier seasons began last season starting with the premier. I see seasons 8-9 as linked storyline and thematically.
This episode is a turning point for the brothers. If they turn away from each other now I see Dean falling more and more under the influence of the MOC and Crowely.
Now, I am not saying that Sam doesn't have a similar, unhealthy attachment to Dean. Sam has shown that he's willing to sacrifice his own life rather than loose his brother's trust in him (Sacrifice). But Sam has also shown that he is not willing to allow others to be hurt in his desperate attempt to secure Dean's regard, at least not since season 4, when his actions to regain Deans' trust brought on the Apocalypse. So, while Sam's attachment to Dean isn't much healthier, it is a little less destructive.
Benny needed Elizabeth and Dean to maintain his humanity over his inner monster. In Citizen Fang (god how I loved that episode) Benny commented that Dean still had Sam. He doesn't believebelieve he does have Sam now. Nice foreshadowing show.
Is Sam's behavior partly the reason for Dean's slide. Yes. Is blame going v to be assigned? No. It's leading us to a great storyline and greater understanding of the brothers and their differences by each other.
I agree with Carver's choice to mature and change the relationship. However I think the fail will be fans that cannot let go of the bumps in the road before. The fandom was fractured before 8, and the hated for Dean is palpable hear as the hated for Sam is elsewhere. It makes discussion nearly impossible some places. This site reputedlyrepute dly lost a reviewer because of it.
This site takes a lot of flak from fans. Why, because it’s an opinionated fandom. It’s a volatile fandom. It’s a splintered fandom. It’s kind of a pain in the ass fandom. ? Underneath it all, we have one love. We love Supernatural. The rest in my mind is just a bunch of crap.
I don’t see a lot of Dean hate here. None of the reviewers especially have any hatred toward a character. I certainly love all of them, although I started my blogging stint for Supernatural trying to figure out just what the hell was going through Sam Winchester’s mind because we never got insight as to what was happening with him because he internalized everything. This was back in season three, but it still happens today in stints. We really had no idea what was happening in Sam internally until “Mystery Spot” and the insights have been few and far between. So yeah, it’s a habit.
But I digress, because that’s not the point of this message. We’ve had lots of writers and commenters come and go, all for various reasons. I’ve had people quit on me before for reasons I still fail to understand. I can’t lose sleep over it though. I’m sorry, I can’t put this more bluntly. It’s a TV show.
Blogging for a large, volatile fandom is hard. Super hard. When you write anything online you’re sticking your neck out and in this fandom there’s always someone waiting with an axe. In the case of sweetondean, she just didn’t want to write like that anymore. She decided she enjoyed the safe haven of her personal blog. I respect that. I have much thicker skin because I’ve been deflecting insults and attacks non-stop since season three. I apologize for the dramatic statement, but I’m just as much a battle weary warrior as the Winchesters. I stand up for this site though because I created it, I’ve put in astronomical amounts of time, commitment, and personal anguish into it, and I’m not going to let bickering fans ruin it. This started with me and some rambling, it can end that way if need be.
We have other pro-Dean writers on this site. I brought Gerry on board because I knew she was one. Sofia is very pro-Dean as well. When she has a chance to write, Pragmatic Dreamer is very pro-Dean and writes very refreshing perspectives on his character. I even checked all the other writers and not one has ever uttered a “Dean sucks” mantra. So enough of “this site” having Dean hate.
I can’t make commenters come here and take certain positions. I’ve got Dean fans telling me how much we hate Dean/Jensen. I’ve got Sam fans jumping on me that we aren’t pro Sam/Jared enough. Castiel fans have all but disappeared, which depresses me because I’m very pro Castiel and have been since day one. I can’t dare talk about another character like The Ghostfacers because all anyone wants to debate is Sam and Dean. I just long for the day where we can all just go back to being Supernatural “fans” and the rest of the crap gets buried. When we talk about the actual show and stop taking conversations to “my character is better than your character” territory.
All opinions are welcome. If your opinion exists though to antagonize another fan instead of “respectfully disagreeing” we don’t need it. That’s not our way. It never has been. I don’t care what site you go to, I can’t think of anything more disrespectful than trashing someone else’s years of hard work by openly stating how you dislike a site all because every comment on that site doesn’t have your favorite character up on a pedestal crowned with sainthood. We don’t do that for any of them. If you think differently, there are so many other places to discuss this show. Perhaps we aren’t for you.
Thank you.
Agree completely. Which brings us to: "Whatever you do, you will always end up here. Whatever choices you make, whatever details you alter, we will always end up—here. I win. So, I win. " Lucifer to Dean/2009 in 2014. (The End 5x4)
I've been waiting to see how this was going to play out all season. I think we're about to find out.
For better or worse I mentioned that I found the new reviewer to offer a balanced perspective that I really liked on imbd when others mentioned that they avoided this site because of perceived bias.
I can give an example of what might be perceived as a bias. Recently someone brought up Dean discussing his issues with Sam's behavior as something bad that Dean did repeatedly, I forget the exact language but that is the gist. Yet Sam is lauded when he brings up things that he doesn't like about Dean. Both characters have a right to their individual feelings and both have a right to discuss them. TO reiterate this was a commenter issue not a review issue.
There is a serious situation at IMBD where fan wars have spread to personal attacks and bad feelings. The anger permeates a lot of the threads now. This fostered a discussion of where else to go. I am sorry it was in my mind when I replied to Gerry's review; however I think it is important to remember that the writers are not thinking about tit for tat. In the real world that kind of behavior is childish and petty. They are trying to move the brothers and hopefully us past that. The boys are very different people and htey need to acknowledge it and accept it and move on.
So I take no offense and hope no one here does either.
On another topic. You previously said that you would welcome my insights on Sleepy Hollow. I looked for your reviews and saw that you have none. Were you inviting me to review it? I am reviewing it for IFP slowly (I will be more timely next season! ) but perhaps the review can be reposted? I am asking to clarify. There is a lot of new genre coming out. It is great that you are expanding the roster.
I totally forgot about the Sleepy Hollow thing! When we picked up Sleepy Hollow, it was in week 5. The reviews were pretty general to begin with, then I had another reviewer take over, and then she stopped submitting reviews before the last two episodes. I couldn't keep up because I'm doing all the work here, plus The Originals, plus Arrow, plus site admin over there. So I had this idea to start over from episode 1 this summer and go every week to episode 13. I was going to do very detailed reviews because the mythology is so involved and left so many clues!
Yes, I'm inviting you to review it if you're interested. Are your reviews detailed? Of course I don't want to step on the IFP boundaries either. I don't mind the review being in both places but they might. Otherwise, it'll be a fun summer activity for me. I'll leave it up to you, but I'll never turn down someone who wants to write! Thanks for reminding me of this.
And thanks for this great review,Gerry. As always you lend new insight into an episode I thought I had all figured out.
Also to the PTB, the new format for commenting is "awesome"! Now I won't have quite so much spelling gibberish in my posts.:D
Secondly, Thank you for this review! I saw this right off when I was watching and was super surprised when I started seeing the comments about how lame it was and how dare the writers trivialize the conflict between Sam and Dean. From personal experience, I know that sometimes it takes a parallel incident to allow one to see the complexities of a situation that once seemed black and white. And hat's off for the Shakespeare reference :)
However, I have to admit that feeling was tenuous and fleeting, after listening to Jensen's recent podcast interview. Have you heard it? Maybe it's my fault for listening to actor's ramblings, but I couldn't help thinking "Well Rick, you dumbo, you almost fell for it again! You believed in Sam, while the writers laughed behind your back." Turns out the show isn't about two hero brothers, just one and the selfish (expletive deleted). Hey if other people want to watch a show about the Big Hero and his brother the selfish (expletive deleted), then they are welcome to it. I think I'm done.
There is a lot of focus on Dean as the aggressor because of the dishonesty in his deal with Gadreel, but let's look at Sam's history and what it means for this current relationship crisis. Sam expressed anger at Dean for convincing him to not finish the trials. Truth is, ultimately that was Sam's decision to make and he hasn't taken responsibility for that. Take a look at that last scene from season 8. Sam says some really unhealthy stuff. He was looking for a way to punish himself for the mistakes of earlier seasons and was talking like a teenager on a suicide hotline. Seeing a soldier do what needs to be done is one thing, watching your kid brother say he hates himself and thinks he's impure just before he kills himself is another. Not that Dean wouldn't be spouting self-hate and whatnot if the roles were reversed. I get the sense Sam would have been disturbingly comfortable watching his suicidal brother complete the trials, even if it meant all of the self-hate would never be resolved. Also, maybe I missed a bit of lore, but what is stopping Sam from starting from trial 1 and going through the whole process again? Also, I can't wait to see them cure more demons as promised in Season 8. Anyways, Sam has felt his free will challenged through his whole life by Dean, his dad, various villains, etcs., and has come to associate abandoning his family with being free. In Heaven, his personal heaven scenes always involved an escape from Dean and Dad. When Dean went to purgatory with no leads, he abandoned the search in favor of a boring girlfriend and a dog. The theme was established in the pilot when Sam was free to go to college and showed nothing but contempt when Dean showed up. The revenge thing was a strong motive in the first season, but really I get the sense Sam understands he won't truly be free until all the bad things are dead and feels nothing but anger and disenchantment for the concept of family. When he's not busy being possessed, addicted, soulless, dying, or otherwise occupied we get a chance to see the Sam who feels superior pretty much always and doesn't form deep emotional connections.
So now we have Dean who has been following the direct order of "watch out for Sammy" since before puberty still struggling to understand Sam as a human being. But let's not forget, Sam has always viewed Dean as an obstacle to freedom and has no intention of understanding Dean as a human being. Since Sam doesn't form emotional connections and doesn't believe in family, he can't possible understand the totally normal reaction of not wanting your brother to die. I'm hoping the upshot of this is that the boys will actually begin forming an emotional connection to eachother that is more than "we're family, we're SUPPOSED to save eachother." And also maybe we'll see Dean move past the co-dependence thing and define himself in some other way. Here's hoping. And also, curing demons please.
Quote: Great comments, katankitsch. Interesting observations that I agree with.